12 Things NOT to do in Japan

12 Things NOT to do in Japan


I won’t lie, I didn’t know a whole lot about Japan before I got here. I knew what Pikachu was, and I’d seen the Last Samurai about three times, and that was probably the extent of my knowledge. I actually did most of my reading about Japanese etiquette on the horrific 12-hour flight between London and Tokyo. And I’ve pretty much just winged it ever since. In hindsight, there are lot of things I know now that I would’ve done well to comprehend before I got here, so today, I’ve taken five years of experience in the field and compiled it into this list of “12 Things Not to do in Japan”. So when you’re on your flight here, you needn’t worry about reading about cultural etiquette; you can sit back, relax, and enjoy the in-flight entertainment, with incredible titles to choose from, such as: The Emoji Movie! Valerian and the City of a Thousand Disappointments! Ace Detective Sherlock Bones! And I think we can all agree, of those three movies, the most compelling would have to be Sherlock Bones: Ace Detective. Especially with that brilliant tagline: “The world’s first talking police dog on a mission im-paws-ible!” “Mission im-PAWS-ible”… It doesn’t really work, does it? At all. So walking down the street whilst eating and drinking isn’t illegal; You’re not going to get shouted at and you’re not going to get arrested by Ace Detective Sherlock Bones. But what you will get is the stare of disapproval. (Christ no, please, I’m sorry.) A lot of people don’t know this one until you get here and never see anyone doing it. What you’ll find is, if someone wants to eat or drink something quickly outside, they’ll buy it at the convenience store and then eat it or drink it out the front. Same with vending machines; if they buy something from the vending machine they’ll drink it there and then next to the vending machine. The main reason is, people are very conscious about keeping the streets clean here, and you don’t want to ruin someone else’s day by having them walk through your spilt coffee. That said, all you need to do to avoid the stare of disapproval is just stop and eat and drink whatever it is there and then. Maybe it’s on a bench, maybe you’re just standing at the side of the road, whatever. Just don’t walk whilst eating and drinking and you’ll be all right. Three things to point out here: No. 1: Never put your chopsticks upright into the rice, as this is part of a ritual conducted at funerals when offering rice to the spirits of the deceased. Similarly, no. 2: never pass things from chopstick to chopstick, because again, this is done during funerals to pass the bones of cremated relatives. So that kind of imagery doesn’t go down well over dinner, as you’d expect. Probably best not to conjure up imagery surrounding death before- before you’ve even had your lunch. And thirdly, don’t do the rubbing of the chopsticks. You know when you open wooden chopsticks and you like to do that to get rid of the splinters and just because it’s fun. Everyone loves doing that, right? But don’t do it in Japan because it’s seen as rude to the owner because you’re basically saying, “Oh, your chopsticks are probably cheap.” Which, let’s face it: they probably are. In fact, they usually definitely are. Probably the greatest thing about Japan ever and the reason that I eat out several times a week, just because I save 20% automatically. In Japan it’s believed that customer service should always be exceptional, with staff giving 120% every time. 120%? 110%; 120% would be ridiculous. But it’s not necessarily rude to tip someone, it just creates this awkward situation where the worker, the staff, would feel like you’re assessing their performance and they could potentially lose face. So you might think you’re being nice by giving someone a tip, but you’re not. You’re just creating an uncomfortable situation for the worker and they’ll probably just reject your tip outright. So don’t be tempted to do it. There’s a real emphasis on being mindful when you’re using public transport in Japan that’s often completely absent in many countries. Numerous are the times that I’ve been riding a train in the UK and someone nearby has been screaming at their partner down the phone and I felt like I was part of the argument, like some kind of unpleasant 4D experience. But given Japan’s density, it’s especially important to be mindful when you’re stuffed in a train alongside fellow commuters, many of whom are sleeping, as well. With that in mind, don’t ever, ever talk on your phone on the train. That’s a massive like, NO thing to do here. And even talking loudly is looked down upon. If you’re on a local train or a subway train and you get a phone call, just ignore it until you get off. And if you’re on a bullet train you can go to the little compartment in between the carriages and take your call there. I remember, for the first few years that I lived here, whenever someone handed me a business card I was utterly terrified because until then business cards, to me, had always just been a bit of paper, a bit of card, with some writing on. But in Japan, they are so much more. Once you’ve exchanged business cards, the trick is to imagine you’ve just been handed the lost treasure of El Salvador or something. First, study it meticulously: the name, the job position, the details… And then either put it in your business card holder or just put it on the desk if you’re at a business meeting. Just put it on the table. Never play around with business cards or put them in your back pocket because they’re seen as a physical extension of the person themselves. And you don’t want to stuff somebody’s physical extension down your back pocket. If you’re doing business in Japan always, always carry business cards. You don’t want to be that awkward foreigner who’s stood there writing out their name and number 50 times in one hour on the back of a tissue. And for the record, I AM usually that awkward foreigner scribbling down my details because I do forget to bring them and subsequently, I hate myself when it happens. If you’ve got a runny nose, standard procedure here is just to keep sniffing or just to find a toilet or a broom cupboard to hide in. Blowing noses in public is pretty rude. Interestingly though, handkerchiefs are pretty popular here; not in the way you would think, though. People use them to wipe sweat off in the hot summer weather or, even more commonly, to dry their hands in public toilets. Because surprisingly, many public toilets in Japan don’t have any hand-drying facilities, despite having space-age toilets that reside in the same room. It’s quite a weird contrast that I don’t quite understand. Physical contact in Japan isn’t really a thing; you’ll bow a lot, you’ll nod enthusiastically daily. But occasionally you might shake hands with someone if they’re a good friend or a business client that you get on well with. But generally, I avoid it unless someone makes the first move. And hugging, in particular, doesn’t go down well. It’s just met with expressions of awkwardness and despair. And also, amongst couples, public displays of affection are phenomenally rare here. So don’t be surprised if you get the stare of disapproval (god, no…) if you’re kissing your partner frantically in the street. And I think that it should definitely be this. If you’re the sort person who feels the need to have a debate or an argument about things or throw your opinions out there constantly, people will find you obnoxious and dislikeable and probably just avoid you. Embedded heavily within the culture is this idea of keeping harmony and avoiding conflict at all costs. And it’s a lot easier to do that when people aren’t at each other’s throats, throwing around opinions. Sometimes it can be frustrating when people are just unwilling to speak their minds or give you a clear yes or no answer. I mean one time one of my colleagues, when I was teaching, I asked him, “Do you have any pets?” and he said to me, “Maybe my cat is dead.” Maybe your cat is dead. What does that mean? Is it dead, or is it not dead? It’s not Schrödinger’s cat, is it? It turned out the cat was definitely dead, but he was just the sort of person that always liked to use the word “maybe” and just not express certainty. But if there’s one reason I’ve never seen a fight anywhere in Japan in the last five years it’s probably this reason. The people are a lot more careful about expressing their opinions and holding back what they really think. Yeah, I couldn’t be bothered to film that one. Everyone seems to know this one already anyway. When visiting someone’s house, or entering a public building like a school, or going to a hot spring, you take off your shoes and switch to slippers before you go in. The easiest way of knowing if you have to change your shoes is there’ll be a change in elevation in the floor. So when you go in there’ll be a little stair and that’s when you know. This is the one thing on the list where failing to stick to the rules will have noticeable results. A few years ago, a friend and I visited a public bathhouse in Kyoto. And we went in and you’re supposed to take your shoes off. For some reason he didn’t; I don’t know why, I don’t think he noticed or saw. There was a little old woman sitting behind the entrance counter where you kind of pay, and when we walked in she saw that he still had his shoes on and she shot up with terrifying energy and ran over and grabbed him and took him to the front and was like, “Get your shoes off! Get your shoes off!” And that image has stayed burnt into my mind. This quiet little old woman suddenly becoming so alive and animated by this… terrible event. And ever since then I’ve never forgotten to take my shoes off when entering a building. For whatever reason, rubbish bins and trash cans are disturbingly rare in Japan. Outside of convenience stores it can be a nightmare to find one. And the reason I put this on the list is because so many people, so many of you guys, message me on Twitter saying, “I’m in Tokyo and I can’t find a bin. What should I do?” I’ve wandered through Tokyo for up to 20 minutes, sometimes, just in search of a bin and can’t find one. The streets though, despite that, are shockingly clean here because people– if they can’t find a bin they just take the rubbish home with them. It can feel like some kind of minigame, sometimes, going in search for a bin; because when you do find a bin you feel a real sense of achievement. But despite that, don’t be tempted to litter. Just keep trying and you’ll find a bin one day. Seems like a fairly obvious addition to the list, and yet in the UK we just cross the street whenever the hell we want; whenever there’s an opening in traffic, as opposed to waiting for the green light– same as many countries. In Japan, however, people do not cross the road on a red light. It’s incredibly rare and it’s one of the greatest ways of seeing this sense of order and obedience to the law that exists in Japan. If you stand at a roadside in Japan and there’s no cars coming, you can’t see any cars whatsoever, people still will not cross the road until it goes green. Over the years, of the many friends I’ve had come to visit me here, this is the thing that shocks them the most: the idea of not crossing the street when there are no visible cars there; the idea of abiding by a rule that doesn’t seem necessary. And yet, for me personally, the main reason I abide by it is, after a few years of being here you don’t want to stand out; you don’t want to be this stereotypical rule-breaking foreigner. And as well as that, you don’t want to run the risk of getting caught out by the police. So those are two things worth taking into consideration before you dash across the seemingly empty road. And the last one, DON’T worry about not knowing anything about Japanese etiquette when you come to Japan. Don- C H R I S T . As I said earlier in this video, there aren’t gonna be any real consequences to not following any of these things– apart from maybe the footwear one, that’s- that’s quite scary. You don’t want to get dragged off by an old woman. The reason I say don’t worry too much is because I find a lot of people come here and they’re very nervous and very anxious about following the etiquette; etiquette they don’t really comprehend. And that includes even me when I came here, I didn’t know anything. And I was constantly anxious and nervous that I was making mistakes. But really, as a foreigner in Japan, you get kind of a free pass to make mistakes. People are understanding and they’re kind and they will let you off, so don’t become too nervous about following all the rules. Do your best, but don’t become a nervous wreck. So those are my 12 things not to do in Japan, But what have I missed out? Let us know in the comments section below. I’ve probably missed out “don’t ever be late” and “don’t enter a bath or a hot spring without having a shower first.” Those are probably the other two key ones that I’ve missed out. And now they’re on the list! So this is actually 14 things not to do in Japan, so… bonus! Bonus stuff, there. It’s Christmas, so you get extra content. Natsuki: Happy Christmas! [singing] So is this Christmas, and [inaudible, but singing Happy Christmas (War is Over)]

100 thoughts on “12 Things NOT to do in Japan”

  • Im Japanese and u never see paper towels in restrooms to dry your hands only air dryers because everyone and I mean everyone in Japan has a handkerchief to dry their hands, wipe off sweat etc
    It’s rlly eco friendly

  • Regarding your #11 and crossing the road during a red light…. LOL happens every day at every minute in/near to アメ横 in 上野. Seriously. No one here gives a shit. Not the tourists, nor the people living here.
    Jay-walking is common here.
    I have passed that spot from アメ横 to 湯島 at least a 1,000 times and I have never seen anyone making a fuss.
    Maybe I was just lucky all those years. 🙂

  • I know this video is going on 2 years old, but I'm on a video binge. I can't travel much anymore, but Japan is one of those places I always wanted to go when I could travel but tip number 9 about the shoes is one of the biggest cultural things that kept me from pursuing it. I'm physically disabled and wear adaptive apparatus on my legs that require me to wear shoes all the time when I'm not showering or sleeping. Never really figured out how if there was a way to get around that without offending anyone.

  • Mojo Hand Guitar says:

    俺は神奈川人だけど、聞いた話じゃ
    東京の人はゴミをひと通りの少ない路地のエアコンの室外機の下にポイするらしいね。

  • They don't have hand-drying facilities in toilets first 'cause they want to save woods (also used to make paper) in the planet; secondly – for the use of blowing dry machines – it's a fact that those help to spread germs into the air.

  • お店で試着したい時は、必ず店員さんに声をかけて、試着室で試着しよう。
    通路で勝手にセーターの試着とかダメだよ。

  • 白薔薇ほわいとろーず says:

    I'm Japanese but I haven't heard that it is illegal to eat or drink while walking.
    I was arrested many times and I didn't notice.

  • I'm Japanese. Your grammar may be a little different because you have just started studying English.There are people who drink in Japan. Certainly there is a culture in Japan that you should not walk around. But you don’t have to think deeply. There is a culture of respecting and treating seniors and shop assistants . Japanese people use too much .The cause of depression and death from overwork in Japan may be due to this culture.
    … Is English wrong?😱😖

  • 10:55

    Guess I don't have to worry about this one!

    I tend to panic about a lot of things, but this one of my biggest irrational fears. If my family is like "No cars are here, let's just go already" I will be right next to my mom since she's the tallest, because if there IS a car somehow that we magically missed, they will run us over because the light on their end says GREEN. GO. RUN THAT KID OVER.

    This is probably only because I was told at a young age "People drink and drive a lot, and there are even more at night. There's also people who do drugs in day time and people who are sleep deprived. These all create reckless drivers." This isn't what they told me EXACTLY but that's basically what translated in my mind, so in my mind it was this:

    "EVERY CAR HAS A RECKLESS DRIVER INSIDE, IF WE CROSS THE RED LIGHT WE WILL DIE. OH GOD THEY ARE CHOOSING TO WALK. THIS IS IT. A FAMILY OF 4 DEAD ON THE ROAD ALL BECAUSE OF OUR IGNORANCE. GOOD BYE FAMILY WE'RE DEAD. internal high pitch screaming …Oh… We made it… And not a single car. Huh."

  • HashbrownGokuson says:

    Already at number one
    Im so disappointed

    But then you won me with keeping the street clean

    Soooooo im back, keep the world clean

  • Dude taking off your dirty ass shoes is also the common thing to do in most if not all european countries. The only people who will not take off their shoes are probably americans because when have they ever had any respect for themselves or others?

  • So far so good Chris san. I have been here 3 days and only been a stupid gaijin once. Well obviously once. I've probably fucked up on an immeasurable scale and they look at me going "Oh my goodness. Where to start?"

  • ティロフィナーレ says:

    歩きながらの"飲"はいいけど"食"はたしかに白い目で見られるね笑
    鼻は自由にかんでも大丈夫ですよ!!(節度はもたなきゃいけない雰囲気だけど笑笑)
    ゴミ箱が少ないのはテロへの警戒ですかね(ゴミ箱がないからこそのコンビニなのでの無料のレジ袋があります)

    いまラグビーで来てる外国の選手にみてほしい動画ですね

  • 食べ歩きに関しては、状況や場所によるんじゃない?そんなにビクビクしなくていい気がする。 日本語で失礼しました

  • No tipping culture is same as Korea. Even when you go to a restaurant and order something, the side dishes are all free XD
    Sometimes I visit Korea and I often forget there are no tippings in Korea so they always give the money back to me lol

  • Japan: "the intent is to provide citizens and travelers with a sense of pride and accomplishment for finding the garbage bins." (EA parody)

  • Hey Chris, my Mrs told me the reason you don't find wastebins in Japan is because they don't trust them due to terrorist attacks in the nineties

  • Sasuke Chidorid My Dog says:

    I do plan on traveling to Japan sometime in my life, and ur Chanel has been a huge help in getting me prepared

  • I’m Japanese and I disagree with the idea of not eating while walking. It is pretty natural in Japan to eat and drink while walking, which is called “tabearuki,” so don’t worry about that guys👍

  • 日本にゴミ箱が無いのは、始まりはテロがあった為、撤去され始めたと思います。その後はゴミのリサイクルなどの為の分別が細かくなった為、持ち帰って分別して捨てるのが当たり前になりました。日本のゴミ分別は細かいので、ゴミ箱を何種類も置かなければならなくなります。昔は至る所にゴミ箱があったのですが、ゴミ箱だけではなくその周りもゴミだらけでした。ゴミ箱が無くなって街が綺麗になりました。
    信号を守るのは、子供がそれを見て真似して信号無視をする人間にならない様に、気を付けているという面もあります。ルールを守る人間になるには、大人が見本を見せる事が大事なのです。

  • you're allowed to blow your nose in public. It's even more rude to keep on sniffing. That's why they hand out pocket tissues in shibuya.

  • For the 7th tip
    No joke when i was in school in my 5th grade in tokyo, i was on the metro coming back home, and the train was almost empty and in the compartment next to me there 2 people having sex

  • 日本人目線でも見てて面白いなー

    Please come to JAPAN
    It is not liked to talk particularly aloud
    Please follow a manner😉

  • I use Google Translate. I am Japanese. What he says is very correct. And there are people who sometimes make even Japanese people. Other than footwear. So don't be too afraid. We want you to enjoy Japan.

  • I'm Japanese and even i think this is a bit overblown except for three things

    business card ,chopsticks and taking off your shoes .

    Take off your shoes.

  • 【ヘルエスタ王国】錬金術師団体「向日葵の種」CKO says:

    I want to say just one thing.
    Don’t be loud in the trains.
    From Japan.

  • Naver news is fake news. says:

    When I was asked for a tip in Europe, I felt very disgusting🤔🤔🤔There is no tip culture in Asia. It's strange to pay taxes and more tips. How far are you going to pay❓
    A simpler accounting is better. To pay the tip, It's mean "You are a poor man". Especially Japanese people are not poor who doesn't pick up even the falling money. You never need a tip. It is rude pay tips. It is a vulgar culture to pay for what you are satisfied with. All you need is gratitude and words, and come again. Don't solve the everything with money.We hate it.

  • im wondering this might apply to the litter rule but if your smokin outside can u drop your fag end or do you have to wait i dont even know know if smoking in public is frowned uppon

  • You know what i hate? I wanna help the earth. And i find so many plastic bottles and guess what? no recycling bins, why are we taught about this if they dont do anything?

    Teacher: “Ok kids remember dont litter and help the earth on earth day!”

    Student: oh wait so its not just a random holiday invented to give students minimum days?

  • If I went Japan (and didn’t watch this video) they would probably kick me out! 😂 I’m so used to London which is the opposite of the whole of Japan 😂

  • ああああああ says:

    公共の場で鼻を噛んでも大丈夫だよ
    レストランならお手洗いに行くのがベスト
    旅館にはチップが存在する

  • 9:31 日本の外に "ゴミ箱が少ない理由"は、恐らく1995年に起こった「地下鉄サリン事件」がキッカケです。不審物によって大量の人々が亡くなり、心を痛めた。

    日本人は常に "見えないもの" や "不審物" を恐れている。
    テロへの対策として、私達は自身の身を守るために、ゴミ箱は撤廃された。

    日本について興味を持ってくれてありがとう。
    私達は、あなた達に会える日を楽しみにしています。
    愛しています。

  • There is one reason why we protect our manners.
    (Of course there are other reasons.)

    I communicate manners to others through my actions.
    Similarly, I look at other people to check my actions.
    I am a teacher for everyone, and everyone is my teacher.

    One man's fault is another's lesson.
    Look back at the people and look back on me.

    And I think that it is useful not only for manners, but also for protecting other people and children from safety-related matters.
    (Traffic rules, etc.)

    ————————————-
    The above can be thought of as a kind of peer pressure.
    I know that some people are scared of it.

    Some people think it ’s good, some think it ’s bad
    ————————————-

    Thank you for your interest in Japan !

  • 日本人だけど、こういう風に客観的に見てみると日本の文化って海外からしたらかなり難しい。だけど日本人で良かったって思う

  • HA-NI- ・RU-GA- says:

    とてもよい動画だと思うわ。
    日本人の私でも面白いと思った
    I think it ’s a very good video.
    I thought it was interesting even for me as a Japanese

  • Justin Breakthrough says:

    別に6は大丈夫でしょう。控えめなら。と言うか普通に相当周りに迷惑な事しない限り日本人はある程度しゃーなしと思ってるでしょう。ちょっと誇張が過ぎる気がする。

  • 留学生バンクーバー says:

    I'm Japanese.But I think there are many people who eat and drink while walking because many shops have so much food to eat and drink outside recently.
    But you are correct.

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